DSO+mod_ruid2 is actually much faster than suPHP and fcgi, so that's why he's pointing you in that direction 
I can't install PHP-FPM for you as it's not something we officially support since making it work with cPanel isn't supported. I can toss you dso+mod_ruid2+zendopcache if you want though. If you serve a lot of static content this can be placed behind an Nginx reverse proxy with Apache still serving dynamic content such as PHP.
I can't install PHP-FPM for you as it's not something we officially support since making it work with cPanel isn't supported. I can toss you dso+mod_ruid2+zendopcache if you want though. If you serve a lot of static content this can be placed behind an Nginx reverse proxy with Apache still serving dynamic content such as PHP.